Are Negative, Dark Emotions and Unforgiveness Fueling Your Cancer?
Step one in a holistic cancer protocol is looking at your deep emotional issues and pain that might be fueling your cancer.
Healers, health care professionals, and coaches know that anger, hatred, trauma, and other negative emotions, as well as unforgiveness, are part of why we get cancer and other diseases.
You can’t harbor all these negative, dark feelings and thoughts without it affecting your health, both mental and physical. You need to look at this and see if this is a problem in your life and health.
Cancer and other health issues often are due in part to these unhealthy emotions, as well as lifestyle factors that fuel disease.
Are you eating or taking drugs or alcohol out of emotions?
It is often a fact that people who eat too much are eating to stuff down emotions from trauma, sexual abuse, mental abuse, condemnation by their spouse, family, or friends, and feel unseen and unheard. It often starts in childhood and just gets worse.
I was friends with a nurse years ago, who overate to deal with her memories of sexual exploitation as a child. Her childhood was horrendous.
There was a really great chiropractor I knew who confessed she had become obese, so men would not be attracted to her. She was eating on purpose, knowing it was detrimental to her health. So you need to get help with that from a coach or counselor to work through those emotional scars.
There have been cases where people went off into solitude, worked on forgiveness of both themselves and the people who hurt them, and the cancer disappeared. They used no other treatment. The doctors told them they were going to die, had little time to live, and this is what they did.
I know one thing from my life: to have happiness and peace, you need to work on your past. My father could not be trusted, and I told no one. I left the house when he came home, and didn’t come home until my mom was home. My mother was not supportive either. She had no idea that I had dyscalculia, a dysfunction in math. I made marriage mistakes when I was young, which did not help my life. I did not overeat or use drugs or alcohol, but it certainly impaired my happiness and success. It takes so much work to dredge out that baggage and let it go. I did not work on my own past emotions until I was middle-aged, so take it from experience: do it now, not later. I still find areas that need healing. Healing emotionally and physically is a lifelong project for some of us.
I suggest you start today and really look at the pain and unforgiveness buried deep in your heart and life. You have to acknowledge it before you can deal with and heal it.
Start from your childhood and move up through broken marriages or relationships. Write down who has hurt you, who you have hurt, and what pain is still festering deep inside.
Look at the pain and scars …face it. This is the first step!
The emotional damage caused by abortions!
I will add that women, if you have had abortions in your past or given up a child, you need to deal with this. I am going to tell you that at 23, I had an abortion out of fear and panic. Furthermore, I did not deal with it for 20-some years. Those emotions that I stuffed down festered and had a huge effect on my life.
When I finally dealt with those emotions, my decision, my regret, my feelings of failure in that decision, and forgave myself, it made all the difference in my life. There are thousands of women out there who have families and children now who had an abortion earlier in their lives, and no one knows about it. No one may know about it but you, but it is still a problem within yourself. I am now at a point in my life where I would rather tell my own story, as hard as it is, hoping it may help other women in their lives.
We went to a church service years ago, and the pastor's wife went up and stated to the congregation that you can be forgiven by God if you had an abortion, and have asked for forgiveness. At least 25 women went up to the altar, crying… breaking down. Most women have not even told their current spouse about their abortion.
Divorced? There is so much emotional baggage connected to divorce, whether it was your fault or not. Emotional baggage connected to the trauma of abuse and failure creates deep pain, which affects your health and happiness.
I am divorced more than once. My husband now, is one of the best decisions I made in my life. My three children are my greatest joy and inspiration. I have grandchildren whom I am very proud of.
My husband Marty loves me with an amazing devotion and acceptance. I cannot imagine my life without my three kids. They are amazing, each one with individual gifts and talents.
Marty and I have been together since 2004. We got married in 2009. I went through years of feeling traumatized by my mistakes when young. I lacked judgment when I was young, and I paid for it. It took me many years after asking forgiveness from God to forgive myself. Often, people forgive others but not themselves.
It is imperative to forgive yourself to be healthy emotionally.
I am at a point in my life at 74, that if I can help others to get over the trauma of their mistakes and childhood trauma, it is worth someone reading this and knocking me for my past mistakes. It is what it is.
People screw up, and those mistakes impact your life. You need to learn from them, see them as lessons, see them as helping you to grow and become a better person. You DO need to deal with the baggage and the emotional trauma!
I am ending with this today.
Great article. I believe in everything you said. Negative emotions are harmful to your body and without proper self- study sometimes you aren’t even aware of them.